We are all in the same boat.
"'You [Jews] are of this world'" (John 8:23).
"'You [disciples] are not of the world'" (John 15:19).
Our honest efforts all gravitate to God's benefit.
"Do all for the glory of God" (1 Cor 15:31).
"'You did not do it to Me'" (Mat 25:45).
Our decisions are not life or death issues.
"'Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will care for itself'" (Mat 6:33).
"If anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either" (1 Th 3:10).
Every motivation is a conscious effort.
"Set your mind on the things above" (Col 2:3).
"Be anxious for nothing" (Php 4:6).
The only way to do it right is to do it yourself.
"'Seek first His Kingdom'" Mt 6:33 and "he who seeks, finds" (Luke 11:10).
"'If you ask anything in My name, I will do it'" (John 14:14).